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 MVES Beacon . Monthly Elder Care News for Clients, Caregivers, and Friends 
June/July 2007 
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Greetings,

We kicked off the unofficial start to Summer 2007 with a beautiful Memorial Day weekend. Maybe you socialized at a cookout, watched a parade in your community, or spent some quiet time at home. Whatever you did, I hope you enjoyed the holiday.

In this issue of The Beacon, we've got your ABC(D)s covered! Read about Art, a Bilingual Case Manager, Cancer Concerns, and Doctor/Patient Relationships!

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  • A Guide For Caregivers
  • From Work To Art Work
  • Speak Up
  • Behind The Scenes With A Bilingual Case Manager
  • Friend's Cancer Causes Concern

  • From Work To Art Work
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    When you retired, were you shocked at how much time you had on your hands? Hours you once spent commuting to and from the office, working that 9 to 5 schedule while raising your family, are now free. But what do you do with your newly acquired free time? Whether you retired yesterday and you're looking for ways to fill your days, or you've been out of work for years, get creative! Grab your paint brush, palette, sketch book, or Cray-pas and try your hand at art!

    Creating art is a great way to express oneself at any age. In addition to making art, sharing your creations can allow for an opportunity to connect with others in your community.

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    Speak Up
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    Many people go to the doctor ready to just listen and let the doctor take the lead. But the best patient-doctor relationships are partnerships. You and your doctor can work together as a team that includes nurses, physician assistants, pharmacists and other health care providers to address your medical problems and keep you healthy.

    Your first step is to find a main doctor (your primary doctor or primary care doctor) that you feel comfortable talking to. Your doctor needs to understand your health concerns and problems.

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    Behind The Scenes With A Bilingual Case Manager
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    When Aleftina Freydin moved to the United States from Russia in 1991, she didn't speak English. After 16 years in the states and almost 10 years at MVES, Aleftina has learned our language and adapted to our culture. As an MVES bilingual case manager, she uses her ability to speak two languages to help both English- and Russian-speaking area elders.

    Editor: Can you tell me about your move from Russia to the United States?

    Freydin: I came to the United States on October 22, 1991 with 11 members of my family, including my two children who were 20 and 14-years-old at the time. When I lived in Russia it was a very difficult time, especially for Jewish people.

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    Friend's Cancer Causes Concern
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    Quetion: I have an elderly friend who is terminally ill with cancer. She is still able to get around and keep up with her daily routine in spite of her illness. Apart from her illness, the main problem she is dealing with is that one of her sons refuses to acknowledge what his mother is going through. My friend is very hurt and states she has failed as a mother if her son could do this to her when she needs him the most. I am tempted to call her son, whom I've known since he was a small child, but don't know if I should get involved. What would you suggest?

    Answer: You are obviously a very concerned, compassionate individual and a loyal friend. Realize, however, that you are probably walking a very fine line-- being supportive is an admirable characteristic but don't let it lead to interference.

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    A Guide For Caregivers
    I'm not sure about you, but I'm inundated by junk mail, flyers, and brochures. The sheer quantity of paper that I sift through is one of the reasons why we choose to send our newsletter electronically--to save you from having to go through more mail!

    However, now and again, I find a printed resource that is worth reading... and even saving. Recently, The Family Caregiver Handbook came across my desk and it's still there. Why? In short, it's a well-written, informative guide that offers current resources to the dedicated individuals who care for family members.

    The Family Caregiver Handbook was written by the MIT Workplace Center. I am proud to say that Mystic Valley Elder Services (MVES) provided some information to the Center during the writing of the book. Many other organizations also contributed to the effort. And, what a successful effort it was! Although 15,000 were printed in January, the book is already out of print. It's a bit like the hit movie at Blockbuster on Friday night--the good ones go quickly.

    The good news is that the MIT Workplace Center has created a web site that serves as a companion to the publication. Major sections of the handbook are available online. One advantage of the online version of the handbook is that visitors can quickly find current information about listed resources by clicking through to the resources' web sites.

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